A mature relationship is one in which we can talk, discuss our problems and find a way forward. But in order to have a mature relationship, reason must rule over emotions. Emotions are good but of we allow emotions to rule our relationships we will destroy them . Emotion has to be under the control of reason . Many people nowdays allow their emotions to rule over them. "If it feels good do it," is the motto of our time. To live life based on feelings is to be without self control. It would mean if I feel angry, I will act angry. If I feel like eating right now, I will eat right now, whatever I feel at the moment is what I will do. A life based on feeling is a miserable one. A man who live based on how he feels will destroy himself, his relationships and a woman who live based on how she feels will do the same . Our feelings fluctuate, our feelings are inconsistent. One moment you may feel happy and the next moment sad, feelings cannot be trusted, feeling can cloud our judgme...