The Violence Within
“The earth was also corrupt before God, and the earth was filled with violence.”
— Genesis 6:11 (KJV)
According to the study Bible, the term "corrupt" means “a moral decay and departure from God's intended order.”
What is violence? Well, the online dictionary defines it as such: “behavior involving physical force intended to hurt, damage, or kill someone or something.”
While the dictionary has a good definition, it doesn't address the full scope of the word. For example, in Malachi 2:16 (NKJV) the Bible says:
"For the Lord God of Israel says that He hates divorce, For it covers one's garment with violence," Says the Lord of hosts. "Therefore take heed to your spirit, that you do not deal treacherously."
The New Living Translation says:
"For I hate divorce!" says the Lord, the God of Israel. "To divorce your wife is to overwhelm her with cruelty," says the Lord of Heaven’s Armies. "So guard your heart; do not be unfaithful to your wife."
Redefining Violence: Broken Trust and Wounded Spirits
So here, we see that God defines violence as dealing with someone treacherously. You made a vow before marriage—"until death do us part"—and then you break that vow. You committed violence. Why? Because you broke trust. While the violence may not have been physical, you still wounded their spirit. That wound may now lead the person into a downward spiral affecting their mental, emotional, and even physical well-being. Here we can see how dealing treacherously with someone is great violence.
When God said the earth was covered with violence in Genesis, He wasn't just talking about physical violence, but any type of action that deliberately harms another, whether it be spiritually, mentally, emotionally, or physically.
And the truth, my friend, is that we are very violent. Whether we go to church or not, we are violent. Violence will automatically be our default setting once self has gained the ascendancy in the life. All of us, to varying degrees, are under the control of self; and violence is within us.
Why do we yell, get angry so easily, curse at each other, and do things to purposely hurt each other? It is the expression of inner violence. The sweetest-looking individual can harbor intense violence within.
The Hidden Faces of Abuse
For example, in domestic violence relationships, you’ll often find the man to be the physically abusive one. That doesn't mean women are not abusive as well, as we well understand that physical abuse is not the sole kind of abuse. Women are not as abusive physically—not for lack of violence, but for lack of physical strength.
Women display their inner violence through hurtful words, emotional manipulation, etc. Remember, violence is anything that one uses in order to harm another, whether emotionally, physically, spiritually, or mentally.
A harsh word spoken in anger can be violence. And violence always destroys trust, as individuals will seek to protect themselves from the violent person.
The Fortress of Fear
Why are nations heavily armed? To protect themselves against other nations. Why do nations seek nuclear weapons? To protect themselves against nuclear-armed nations. Why are American citizens heavily armed? To keep themselves safe from other violent people. Violence always leads to a rush to arm oneself, to defense, to the building up of a fortress, to isolation.
The more violent we become as individuals, the more defensive those around us will be. People may live in a home together, yet be spiritually and emotionally guarded against each other due to the violence of one another. A person who lacks self-control over themselves, their mouth, or their emotions is a violent and reckless person. They will harm those around them. They claim to love, but war will soon rise up—not necessarily a physical war, but a war of words; a war that leads to emotional withdrawals and eventual separation.
Violence always leads to separation, even if not physically.
The Empty Soul and the Mask of Society
So why was humanity so violent? Why are we so violent? It is because we lack the Holy Spirit of God. For the fruit of the Spirit is love, meekness, temperance, self-control, etc. A person without the Holy Spirit feels empty and angry—angry because of the many disappointments in life, the many rejections and frustrations.
For the majority of people, the fear of looking bad in the eyes of society keeps this violence hidden until you get close to them. Because of this, some people, in order to maintain a good look in society, don't allow people to get too close to them. But get close enough, and you’ll experience the violence within: the anger, rage, vile words, tantrums, manipulation, the desire to hurt, and the seek for revenge.
And usually, the person closest is the one who experiences the violence. The irony of such a case is that we hurt and kill the person we claim to love. This is why domestic violence cases are so high. People hurt and kill the person closest to them because, in close and continuous proximity, it is hard to pretend and control the inner violence.
The Breaking of the Dam
The inner violence cannot be controlled all the time. The more we seek to control the inner violence, the more it builds, and one day, like a broken dam, its waters will overflow and sweep away everything in its path. This is why sometimes we see violence rise up from people from the smallest triggers. It’s the small, continuous rain that eventually breaks the dam.
So how do we free our soul from the violence within? There is only one way, and it is by bringing the self before God with all its wounds, disappointments, and frustrations, and then asking God for His healing grace—asking God for His Holy Spirit. A one-time ask will not do; we have to continue to come to God and present the deep issues in our hearts to Him.
This is why, in the aforementioned verse in Malachi, God warns to guard ourselves that we do not deal treacherously with our spouse. Meaning, unless we are on constant guard through prayer, we will deal treacherously with our spouses, we will deal treacherously with each other, we will wound, we will harm, and we will destroy one another.
Seeking the True Ark of Safety
Human beings are destructive by nature. Our default setting is to protect self and attack others—to keep for self and take from others. Our default setting is violence. And in the days of Noah, God said:
"...My Spirit shall not always strive with man, because he is but flesh..."
— Genesis 6:3 (GNV)
The natural man without the Holy Spirit is violent, and so if we want to stop being violent and stop being destructive to those around us, let us seek the Lord daily. Let us ask the Lord to remove the violence from our hearts and minds and to give us a renewed mind, a sound mind which will work towards bringing peace, harmony, love, and tenderness to the lives of others.
Now we can see why God destroyed the world with a flood. The violence within our hearts had become an overwhelming flood sweeping through society, breaking the dam of God's limit, which then overwhelmed the unrepentant who didn't make Christ their refuge.
Just as God provided an ark of safety for Noah from the violence of the flood, He will provide an ark of safety for us with the indwelling of the Holy Spirit in the soul, shielding our souls from our own nature.
May God bless you.